Meet Dr. Angela, a physician whose journey from palliative care to founding REIWA Health has given her a unique perspective on what truly matters in life. Through years of working with patients at the end of life, she witnessed firsthand that relationships, not material success, define our deepest sense of fulfilment.

Today, Dr. Angela champions a holistic approach to sexual health, addressing the physical, psychological, and relational aspects of intimacy. In a society where such topics are often avoided, she is on a mission to create safe spaces for open conversations, helping individuals and couples build healthier, more meaningful connections.

You spent years in palliative care before founding REIWA Health. What did those end-of-life experiences teach you about intimacy and human connection?

During my time in palliative care, I realised that what truly matters at the end of life is not material wealth, but relationships. I visited patients in both large homes and small flats, and what stood out was not the space they lived in, but who was present and the quality of those relationships.

It was a powerful reminder that, ultimately, human connection is what people value most.

Sexual health is still considered a taboo topic in many Asian countries, including Singapore. Why do you think this silence persists?

A large part of it comes from education and cultural context. Sexual education in Singapore is still largely abstinence-based, and in a multicultural, multi-religious society, there is caution in addressing the topic more openly.

At the same time, young people are exposed to a wide range of information online, creating polarised views. Without a safe middle ground, many struggle to understand what healthy intimacy truly means.

One common myth is that intimacy happens naturally in a stable relationship. In reality, it requires effort, curiosity, and ongoing communication.

From your experience, are most sexual health issues physical, psychological, or relational at their core?

It is usually a combination of all three. Some patients have physical conditions such as high cholesterol or hormonal changes. Others face psychological challenges like performance anxiety or deep-seated beliefs around shame.

Relationship issues, such as unresolved conflict or emotional distance, also play a significant role. That is why a holistic approach is essential in addressing these concerns.

In today’s fast-paced society, what are the biggest threats to emotional and physical intimacy?

The biggest issue is the lack of intentional time for connection. Many couples stop setting aside time for each other once they begin living together.

Daily routines and digital distractions take over, and intimacy becomes secondary. With constant stimulation from devices, people may also experience reduced desire without understanding the underlying reasons.

What is one myth about sex or relationships that you wish more people would challenge?

One common myth is that intimacy happens naturally in a stable relationship. In reality, it requires effort, curiosity, and ongoing communication. Many couples stop asking deeper questions over time, assuming they already understand each other.

This loss of curiosity often leads to emotional distance.

What do you believe is the meaning and purpose of life?

To become a truer and better version of ourselves each day. Relationships act as mirrors, revealing both our strengths and flaws. Instead of letting challenges damage the relationship, we can use them as opportunities to grow and understand ourselves more deeply.

What is your vision for Singapore in the next five years?

I hope people become more open to recognising that we are all works in progress. There should be greater acceptance of seeking help and a willingness to improve ourselves, without the pressure of perfection.

If you could have a superpower for one day, what would it be and why?

I would want everyone to experience a moment of unconditional love. That kind of experience has the power to transform how we see ourselves and others.

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